If only you knew…

I’ve seen this play out, on social media and in the old days: “If only you knew the whole story…”

So, when the brilliant writer Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie published her “reflection” last month this part stood out in particular:

She also suggests that there is some dark, shadowy ‘more’ to tell that she won’t tell, with an undertone of “if only you knew the whole story.”

It is a manipulative way of lying. By suggesting there is ‘more’ when you know very well that there isn’t, you do sufficient reputational damage while also being able to plead deniability. Innuendo without fact is immoral.
— Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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